What to Say in an Emergency

When Calling Emergency Services

Say exactly:

""I'm calling about my child who has a head injury. They are [age] years old. The injury happened [time] minutes/hours ago from [cause of injury]. They are [conscious/unconscious] and showing these symptoms: [list main symptoms]. We are at [your exact location/address].""

At the Emergency Room

Say exactly:

""My child hit their head [time] ago. Here's what happened: [brief description]. I noticed these symptoms: [list symptoms in order they appeared]. They [have/haven't] lost consciousness or vomited. They [do/don't] have any medical conditions and [are/aren't] on any medications.""

Step-by-Step Instructions

  • 1
    Comfort and Calm Your Child
    Take a deep breath, then comfort your child with gentle words.
    Sit them down comfortably; avoid rapid movements.
  • 2
    Check the Injury
    Gently look at the area:
    Minor bump or bruise: Apply a cold pack wrapped in a cloth (or bag of frozen peas) for 10–15 mins.
    Bleeding cut: Press gently with a clean cloth until bleeding stops. Clean gently with water; don't scrub.
  • 4
    Manage Mild Pain and Swelling
    Pain relief: Acetaminophen (Tylenol) or ibuprofen (Advil) following age-appropriate dosing.
    Rest: Quiet activities; no screens initially. Reading, puzzles, or quiet play is best.
  • 5
    When to Return to Normal Activities
    First 24 hours: Take it slow. Quiet activities, no rough play.
    After 24 hours: If your child is alert, responsive, and feeling well, gradually return to normal routines.
    Sports or high-energy play: Wait at least 48 hours without symptoms. Always consult your doctor for concussions.

Watch for Signs

Monitor your child for these symptoms:

🚩 Red Flags (seek immediate care)

  • Loss of consciousness (even brief)
  • Confusion or dizziness
  • Repeated vomiting (2+ times)
  • Severe headache or neck pain
  • Vision changes or unequal pupils

💚 Normal Symptoms

  • Mild headache
  • Minor swelling or bruise
  • Brief crying, irritability
  • Slight tiredness, normal sleep
  • No memory loss or confusion

FAQs (Common Parent Questions)

"My child wants to sleep. Can they?"

Yes, it's okay to sleep after a minor bump. Check on them periodically to ensure breathing is normal and they're easily roused.

"Should I wake my child up overnight?"

It's no longer routinely recommended. Only wake your child if symptoms worsen or you notice unusual breathing or restlessness.

"Should I take them to a doctor just in case?"

Trust your instincts. If you're unsure, see a doctor. It's always better to be cautious, especially with young children.

Real Parent Tips

Real Parent Experiences

"Ice packs saved us. Keeping one wrapped and ready in the freezer helps."

Sara H., Toronto

"Trust your gut. We went to ER after seeing dizziness; glad we did."

Hassan J., Vancouver
This guide is intended for quick reference and does not replace professional medical advice. Always consult a medical professional if uncertain.