Start the timer when you first notice your child is missing. It will guide you through the escalation steps.
Step-by-Step Procedure
- STAY CALM - panic slows you down
- Call their name loudly and listen
- Check the LAST place you saw them
- Look in obvious hiding spots nearby
- Check bathrooms, under tables, inside stores
- Ask nearby adults: "Have you seen a child in [color] shirt?"
Asking nearby people:
“I'm looking for my [age]-year-old. [He/She]'s wearing [clothing]. About this tall [gesture]. Have you seen [him/her]?”
- You witnessed someone take your child
- Your child has a medical condition requiring medication
- Weather conditions are dangerous (extreme heat, cold, water nearby)
- Signs of forced entry or struggle
- Your child would NEVER leave without telling you
- Your child is under 3 years old
Frequently Asked Questions
How long should I wait before calling 911?
Call 911 after 10 minutes of active searching. There is NO waiting period for missing children - this is a myth. Police want to be called early so they can coordinate resources while the trail is fresh.
What if they've wandered off before?
Still follow the same procedure. Each time is different and could be dangerous. Police take all missing child reports seriously, even for repeat wanderers.
What if I think they're just hiding?
Search hiding spots thoroughly, but don't let "they're probably hiding" delay your escalation. If they don't come out after calling their name, treat it as a real emergency.
Will I get in trouble for calling 911 if they turn up safe?
No. Police would rather respond to a false alarm than miss a real emergency. You are never wrong for calling when your child is missing.
What information should I have ready?
Recent photo on your phone, exact clothing description, height/weight, hair color, last seen location and time, any medical conditions, and your phone number. Consider taking a photo of your child's outfit at the start of outings.
This guide is for quick reference and does not replace professional medical advice. When in doubt, call your pediatrician or go to the ER.